garilou
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« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2011, 12:56:10 AM » |
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Hi DCA! And hi Justo.
DCA knows me from long ago, and knows that my posts are long because I always do a lot a research before I post or reply to a post.
Justo you do not know me because I have been so silent for so long.
But I have read all your posts, without feeling the urge to reply.
Anyway, I used to love this forum, for a while it was very animated and brought very interesting discussions, and to some friendly relationships (apart a few exceptions) My activity on this forum took so much of my time that I had to take the difficult decision to step aside. [It does not mean that I have been idle all that time: although I have been trading for more than 25 years, I have taken the time to study more, and I have developed pretty useful decisions tools, and one of those days, I will write a pretty long post about it them.]
But because I am a woman, I could not resist to reply to your post. It is long, but this time, not because I did a lot of research. I reply pretty emotionally.
This subject is already somewhat sexist: comparing ALL women with the average trader.
Your post is pretty long, you bring us very new and surprising concepts, like "Buy low, sell high", some very controversial ones too: "should the market decline, well then it’s time to buy more of course (underline by me), not sell off at a discount!"
The rest of your post is terribly sexist! It was a man, a very renowned advisor, when there were to discount broker, who had me loose so much money by making me buy stocks that had lost 30% of their value! And buy more when they had lost another 10%! I was just a beginner at that time, and have learned a lot from those mistakes. And I understood that if my mom had been so successful in her investing, it was not because HE was her advisor, but because SHE had inherited from her father the sense of good investing. He proposed, and she decided, whereas I as a beginner, almost blindly obeyed to his proposals, not having yet understood the hidden agendas brokers had.
The comparison with your ex is simply not serious! Would you like me to tell you about the buying habits of my loved husband who died 4 years ago, and take this as an "ideology" that we could try to apply to the stock markets? He was a compulsive and terrible buyer, buying cheap things, just to realize a year later, that he should have bought the more expensive (and better) one. So he sold the first (with a loss for sure), and only then bought the right one.
He laughed at me because I saved so much on small things, and was astound when I decided promptly to spend quite an amount on something that I thought was going to give more value to our home. Nevertheless, although he had never learned, looking at me trading, he started to do it too. Very fast, he became extremely efficient and successful, almost doubling his RSSP in the months when he was at the hospital. His technique was so simple, but I have never heard of anyone talking about it. And even if I know his strategy, I have a hard time trying to reproduce it.
I do not want to start discussing the concepts of "buy low, sell high", or the one of stocks being at discount. But I would like to know what exactly, apart from your experience with your ex, brought you to the conclusion that the answer is "Undoubtedly yes". Women go shopping when there are huge sales? And that men don't?
You know what? When I, you or your ex go shopping and buy something on sale, this is not with the intent to sell it at a higher price! It is with the intent of using it! (At least I hope so)
I bought my "new" computer in July, when the crisis was almost at his worst (although I think the worst is still to come), I got a DELL computer at an amazing cheep price, but I would never have bought DELL's share at that time! I was short on it, and with the gain, I could have bought many more of their computers!
Please make your point with more serious facts.
To DCA: you know that I enjoyed a lot your thoughts and comments, but your reply is somewhat sexist too, (but I am sure that none of you can feel the difference, because you are males, and not as sensitive as me to sexist details.) Your reply compares the "successful" female to 50% of the male investors. You say that it safe to say... from where to you hold this? How safe is it really to say that? And to say what exactly: is my English too poor?
Please both of you, compare apples with apples and oranges with oranges.
Compare the average woman to the average man, and/or the successful female to the successful male. And bring arguments to your conclusions.
If I had been able to reply very shortly, I could have simply replied (sorry for the French, SSP) to both you posts: "N'importe quoi!"
I take to occasion to say "Hi" to all my previous friends on this forum, starting with the SSPs, and one of the few who still posts, with whom I have had some arguments, but who I respect so much for the seriousness and usefulness of his posts: Tara. Justo, happy to greet you on this forum, and DCA, happy to read you again
Louise
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